Women are relationship oriented. They find fulfillment in their relationships. If a woman cannot form quality relationships, she will form emotionally unhealthy relationships. She needs help to become singularly whole. Men are accomplishment oriented. They find fulfillment in their jobs. If a man cannot be productive legally, ethically, and morally, he will become productive illegally, unethically, and/or immorally, or he will become self destructive. He needs help to determine his abilities and/or find a productive outlet for them.